Thursday, September 18, 2008

Supporting Cast

We are surrounded by people all the time. People, sooner or later, turn into friends. Friends have varied roles in our life. Now these are the “Supporting Cast Roles”

· Advisors – Helps you to establish personal priorities and use informal networks to make progress toward your goals.
· Catalysts – bring best in you. Serve as sparkplugs for your thoughts and actions.
· Celebrators – Celebrates your accomplishments and make them more meaningful.
· Cheerleaders – Support and nurture when times are tough. Provide encouragement to help you through crisis.
· Constructive Critics – dare you to rethink your plans and decisions. Provide you the honest feedback.
· Esteem Builders – support and reinforce your self-image. Help you to believe you can succeed.
· Role models – people whose success and life you want to replicate. Ones who model values, norms and behaviors that you adore.

Its absolute sad –I cannot jot down more than 5 friends (5 includes parents) Most of the names just get repeated in the list. 27 years – 5 friends -who care about you, who know real “you”

Should I be proud of these 5 or be disappointed with rest of the circle? And another thought – Who all would include me in their list?
Hmm.

3 comments:

Edward Ott said...

i think i like this word confuzzled.

Björn said...

Awww... thanks! You obviously did a good job of trying to hide it, but I could see myself in there. Of course, as a regular modest character, I don't really consider myself a Role Model to my friends, but I'm honestly flattered that you think of me in that way... it is my immense pleasure to be a hero whose "success and life you want to replicate".

And what's so bad about your list? It's just your FIVE :D! If you know what I mean. I guess most people have their FIVE these days.

Anonymous said...

u've put it in better words..

5 tar far jasti hotat mazya sathi.

and i liked the last question u have raised..

though right now I am not in the best mental state, i think I will be glad If I find out that the answer to your last question in my case as 1 or 2. We're not Gandhiji/Castro et al.. crowding hota manat far..